The Evolution of Change

Evolution is the gradual development of something that will change into a more complex or better form.

So yesterday I learned a valuable lesson, as you evolve and become better not everyone will continue with you on this journey called life. As you continue to progress, these same people who were once your friends will constantly bring up your past because they don’t want you to change. Quality is better than quantity.

I am a very loyal person, so I tend to hold onto people  because of the fact well they’ve been there for such and such of time, although these same people are not meant to be lifetime friends. Everyone serves their purpose in your life, whether the time is short like a day or a lifetime. When people come into our lives perhaps it’s for us to learn something or we’re supposed to teach them something. Once that season is over, its okay to move on.

As you evolve everyone cannot come with you and that is okay. I read a quote on Facebook that said, “show me your friends and I’ll show you your future” which is actually biblical concept. Proverbs 13:20 says, ” Keep company with the wise and you will become wise. If you make friends with stupid people you will be ruined.” (GNB) I know for a fact that when you associate yourself with positive people you will become positive. It really is okay to let people go, you have to do what is best for your growth. At the end of the day the only person you should want to hold on and please is God.


-peace, joy, & blessings





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