Recently, I had a conversation with one of my closest friends TJ and we discussed how we’re getting older, but we’re living our best life. One of the things that we talked about was waiting for the right man to come along. During the conversation, it was brought up how a lot of women are taught to accept bullshit from a man, just to say I have a man. To me, womanhood is define more than just babies and being married. We are worth so much more than we were ever could imagine.
When it comes to a relationship, you don’t have to settle for foolishness. People show you who they are, it is up to you to believe them. In my early 20’s I definitely gave multiple changes, but now I know my worth and I cannot tolerate no kind of foolishness or disrespect. My mom always says people do what you allow, and that is so true.
It hurts to see some women that are in relationships with men who don’t care about them. It’s okay to wait for the right man. I do believe good men are out there, the ones that will protect and provide. The ones that are god fearing, respectful, and considerate. The ones who are unselfish, loving, and hardworking.
There’s beauty in waiting, and just know that you’re worth it.