Today, as I was browsing through Facebook, I came across a post that said ladies if a man is married or in a relation ship, leave him alone. While this statement is true, I believe that these married men and men in relationships approach these women. I speak from experience.
In the last couple of months, I have been approached by married men and I thought they were single, they did not wear a wedding ring or mention that they were married. I thought they were single. I found out on social media that one of the guys was married with a whole wife and children and the other guy saw him at church function with his wife and children. I immediately discontinued conversation with the both of them. How disrespectful can you be to approach women when you have a whole family.
I think the biggest problem is lack of self discipline and self love, if you love yourself you will not do harm to others. Its really okay to be faithful and loyal and have self respect for yourself. It causes more harm then good, when a man (married/in a relationship) establishes connection with a single woman; its a lot of drama. Like do people not like living drama free lives, cause I do. Save that drama and be faithful to yo boo. If you don’t like something in your relationship communicate with that individual or leave.
If you know you don’t want to be in a relationship, stay single.